Doctor visits aren't like they used to be. Years ago one doctor took care of just about everything. I know that I'm the exception and not the rule but I personally see nine (9) different types of doctors. I'm not complaining. I'm still alive from stuff that has killed others, and in the words of the old church deacons as they prayed on Sunday morning, "With a reasonable portion of health and strength." With two (2) appointments today I realized that I usually prepare for each appointment. Sometimes its a medication adjustment or updating the medication list I keep in my wallet. Other times I list my symptoms, checking the calendar for start date and intensity or writing a list of questions. Speaking up and questioning my doctors has become ordinary for me. But I realize that's not the case for everyone.
Years ago I was Director of Patient Education for what is now the Lupus Foundation of Virginia.Even though I no longer hold that role, I will still talk to anyone about lupus, anytime and anywhere. But recently I find myself sharing information about other health conditions as well. I have even had the opportunity to accompany others to medical appointments and assist them in them in asking questions and getting answers from their medical practitioners.
I'm not beating up on the medical profession. Doctors and other practitioners are the experts in their chosen field of study. But we are the experts of our bodies. We know when something just doesn't feel right and we usually have an idea when something is wrong. Thirty-three (33) years ago it took a year and three (4) doctors to be diagnosed with lupus. The first doctor said that what I was experiencing was normal, the second doctor said it was all in my mind, but agreed to send me to a neurologist before sending me to a psychiatrist. The neurologist believed something was wrong, ordered every other day blood draws, and concluded after two (2) weeks that it was 'probably' lupus. And the fourth doctor confirmed the diagnosis. By the way, at that time, that was considered a quick diagnosis; many lupus diagnosis routinely took several years.
The next time you go to your medical professional or accompany a friend or family member prepare for the visit. Know the onset of any symptoms and their intensity. If something makes them worse or better write it down. Keep an up to date list of medications and their dosages. Write down any questions you may have, ask them, and ask for the answers in plain English. Most people ask more questions of their mechanic than their doctor. If new medication is being given be sure to understand why its needed, how it will help you and potential side effects. Don't be afraid to speak up to your doctors.Health care is expensive (a topic for another day). It's time to get your money's worth.